Relationship MInds

When we talk about couples being in a relationship, we see perfection in them, unless those couples look like disgusting two figures trying to make a chemistry out of it, yes we see it almost everyday in the Indian street, no pun intended. Of course not every Indian couples looks alike two distorted figure, we see beautiful and cute couples around the streets. What i mean to say is we see those couples thing on a surface level, since human are naturally blinded by things we don't perceive and never contemplate to see the whole picture so we never sees the whole story.

It is tempting to not think about what our significant other might be up to on social media, a platform where everyone is available for a chit chat, even i have been in situation when i'd be deeply burned inside when my partner talks with other guys online, I know its stupidity to restraint her to not get involved in talking with those online gooners, however we can't help but have all the feelings build within with skepticism and resentment. 

For instances, there are different stages or phases in a relationship, and every couples will have to go through these phases with some form of emotional, mental and physical state of mind. Relationship is all about working things out, if one part say, emotional breakdown happens then both should be equally responsible to figure out and mend the problem. But the world is not a sunshine dwelling, people will be stubborn enough to even elevate an issue, turn their back and restraint them-self to move on. Such relationship is what i call a Toxic one because consciously the significant partners gives way to their stubbornness.